Butterflies, I’m not talking the ones that fly away and are
pretty to look at. Im talking the ones you get on roller coasters, when you do something
well, or when someone makes you just feel special. All of these can feel
amazing and give you a different adrenaline rush and a sense of belonging.
Example one, you’re in class and the guy that your into is looking at you. It’s one of those
intuition things where you don’t need to see it you can feel it. So you turn
around and when he sees you looking at him he quickly turns away. You just find
it the cutest thing in the world and turn back around and can’t stop smiling!
Then the rest of the day all you think about is that moment when he made you
smile. As I have said before girls over-analyze any move a guy makes so the guy
needs to watch out. So she’s into you and you know it but she’s talking to
another guy in class, she’s trying to make you jealous. She tries super hard to look good just to get
a comment from you every day to know that you’re still interested. The major
one is jealousy. She loves the guy to be jealous, but hates it when she is.
Example two, you wake up in the morning super early and have
no motivation to get ready. Then your phone lights up and you have a new
message. You open it and see “good morning.” That’s when your morning turns
from okay to great. Then you can’t wait to see them at school. Once you start
texting for the day then you don’t want to stop. Even though we all know we can’t
text in every class that we have. Whole over-analyzing thing comes into play
again. Getting a message with to many periods to a girl means that the guy is
bored with the conversation. When he says something sweet, he just made the
girls day and she is feeling great. Those complements when the girl gets asked
why she’s so smiley are the best to have. In texting the girls most favorite
thing is when a guy will call her sweet and affectionate names. When the words
babe and cutie come into play they know they have the girl hooked.
Example three, you talk in person and make eye contact. Once
you do that you know the guy is into you because he isn’t afraid to look at
you. When you can have long discussions and even when there is silence and it’s
not awkward is the best. You can just talk on and on and feel so comfortable
with the person it’s like you’ve known them forever. Then you start to flirt a
little and it makes it even better. The best thing to me as a girl is when the
guy isn’t afraid to talk on the phone and will say “hey call me.” It shows that
you have good enough communication that it’s okay to hear each others voice and
not only text. Then you can hear and convey real emotion that’s going on.
Another great thing about talking is if you get along with the guys friends. If
the friends like you it’s going to work out. A man can never be without four
key things, food, sleep, sexual needs, and his friends. The guy might be into
you but the friends aren’t distracted to see the flaws in the girl. So if the
friends approve the guy can know that she is okay to date and be with.
The monarchy butterfly is a great analogy to the butterflies
in your stomach. They both are beautiful and you can’t live without. Both
provide joy and happiness, and lead to great things in life. So go ahead and
give someone the butterflies today. Who knows it might bring a little more joy
into your day too.
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